EX-4550-DHCP Relay/Helper bootp - Different pointers?

Hello Everyone!

I have a recent issue lately, normally when we need to specify SCCM servers or DHCP server forwarders i would just go ahead and add a 'forwarding-options' like so:

set forwarding-options helpers bootp interface <Vlan or Interface > server <Server IP> routing-instance <Routing-Instance>.

Recently i had an issue where we implemented a VMM management network on our bigger offices.
This has a mgmt VLAN configured linked to it's routing-instance via our ISP's separate VLAN to a separate router in an Palo-Alto which is then link to the segmented network where our VMM's are.

Before the VMM's was just shared on the same network as the authenticated klients.

The problem is that on the interfaces to the server we need to have booth the VMM-MGMT vlan and the klient Vlan for that office so the created VM's can be placed in the Klient VLAN, if i take an example office:

VLAN.100 (VR-instance-1) - KLIENT
VLAN.200 (VR-instance-2- VMM-MGMT

The Distrubition Point for the office is present on the VLAN.100 and no forwarder is needed, however the DP for VMM-MGMT is in our datacenter and is reachable via its routing-instance.

Question 1
What configuration would i need for a specific interface to ignore the DP on same VLAN locally and only go to the one with the forwarding configuration when both VLANS are on the interface?

So interface xe-0/0/1 has trunk configured with KLIENT and VMM-MGMT VLAN.

Question 2
The DHCP and DP for VMM-MGMT are on differnt IP's, so a simple forwarder wont help relaying all the traffic to a single IP, is it possible to only forward DHCP traffic to one IP and for the PXE boot option a different IP? or does this need to be done on the DHCP server with  options 66/67 (not recommended according to our external consultant).

Thanks again for any help!